Breaking Up with Aldi

I think I’m slowly breaking up with Aldi.

I don’t shop there as often, and when I do, I find it frustrating. The prices aren’t as good as they used to be. The quality of the food is declining (the cottage cheese with orange blobs in it put us off cottage cheese so much that we still don’t buy it, anywhere.)  As if that weren’t enough, I almost always end up being overcharged because the gals who work there are going so fast that things get scanned too many times. So after I check out, I have to study my receipt and then go wait for a clerk to give me one or more refunds; meanwhile my frozen orange juice melts.

Aldi and me, we go way back. My dad took us there in the 1970s; it’s where I stocked up before heading back to college each semester. I shopped there as a newlywed. We were there all the time during the years we had six mouths to feed. More recently, each time we moved, we made sure to find the nearest Aldi. In fact, when we lived in Door County, we drove 50 minutes to an Aldi (in Green Bay).

But now I live 5 minutes from Aldi and I only go maybe once a month. The grocery store across the road has better prices, and offers a less-aggravating experience, so I go there at least once a week and usually more often.

I suspect what’s finally happening at Aldi is what happens to most chain stores over time. Some suits at corporate headquarters decide the employees aren’t working fast enough. So they crack the whip on them: “Speed it up! We’re spending too much employee time processing the customers.” And so the customer experience goes down while the profits go up. But sooner or later, the customers get fed up and stop coming.

That’s what happened with me and Wal-Mart; we broke up quite a while back. I haven’t been in one in months. Pay attention, Aldi. You may be next.

Flashback Friday: Raising Stars

The announcement that, according to a recent Pew telephone survey, over 80% of today’s American young people consider being rich and famous one of their top life goals garnered a lot of attention. This particular article about the survey results suggests that one cause of young people’s desire for stardom is the “omnipresence” of their parents’ video cameras while they were growing up.

I can’t speak to the cause, but I know where this concept of stardom is being perpetuated, and that’s in the classroom. I recently received the latest edition of our local school district’s P.R. piece, er…magazine, which describes one local school where “learning about health and well-being is fun.” A program called “Staying Well” is the second grade science and health curriculum there, and it includes songs for the kids to sing, including this one (note: I’m sharing it just the way it’s printed in the mailing, sans punctuation.):

I am the star of my body,
The star of my mind
I am the star of my life yeah
I’m doin’ just fine
I take good care of myself
‘Cause I know that I should
I’m feelin’ good
good good good good
Feelin’ good

OK, so not every lyricist is the next Ira Gershwin. But my point is that kids in my town are taught that the key to well-being is reminding yourself of your stardom. You won’t find that kind of nonsense in our homeschooling house. Anybody who starts claiming stardom around here will find themselves the star of a new reality series called “Extra Chores.”

Originally posted 2/10/07

Sometimes technology is so cool……

 

The upcoming bride in our house is designing a guestbook for her wedding using engagement photos and Snapfish. She’s very good at making books there and I know the guestbook is going to be wonderful.

But there are all sorts of uses for these books that are so easily made using your own photos. Like this ABC book you make for a child using his or her own toys. How cool is that?

 

Flashback Friday: Time Together All Year Long

As a small publisher, I spend a lot of time at the post office. After my visit there yesterday, I walked past our dentist’s office, just a few doors down, and noticed that it was closed up and dark, which is a strange sight in the middle of a weekday afternoon. Then I remembered that this week is Spring Break around here, and our dentist always takes his family on a trip for Spring Break. He has a wife, two teenaged stepchildren and a small son, and it’s a good time for them to bond as a family; the rest of the year, they are each busy with their own schedules, and there’s not much time to be together.

It’s got to be hard to create family time on such an infrequent basis. That’s why we homeschooling families are so fortunate to have as much time together as we do. Our teens and tiny kids have the opportunity to grow close despite the gap in their ages. My adult daughter regularly calls her younger siblings and hangs out with them. Would that have happened if we hadn’t been home together for so many years? I wonder.

The concept of homeschoolers having more family time was a theme in the recent movie “RV,” which we watched on DVD last week. I don’t normally watch Robin Williams’ movies because he becomes so frenetic that I want to shoot him with a tranquilizer gun. But he wasn’t as bad in this one. He plays the father of a family whose members are too busy with their own concerns to spend much time together, and he sees that he needs to do something about it. So he takes his family on a long trip in a recreational vehicle (there’s another reason for the trip, which is part of the plot, but I won’t go into that here.)

While on their travels, they meet another traveling-by-RV family that they find quite annoying…you guessed it, a homeschooling family. That family lives in an RV, homeschooling as they travel. The family’s members are portrayed as out of the mainstream, compared to Williams’ family. But over time, Williams’ character sees the closeness in that family and decides it’s what he wants for his own.

We homeschooling families are blessed to be together every day, and even though it gets hard sometimes (financially, personally or both), we have to remember that we have something rare and precious in this world: time together. Seeing how the rest of the world, like my dentist or Robin Williams’ character in “RV,” lives can help remind us of that. I’m so glad I never had to wait for Spring Break to have time with my kids!

Originally posted 3/29/07

How to Get Barb’s Book for Half Price

Guest post from a homeschool dad:

Has your Homeschool year started and things aren’t quite going smooth yet? Are you Moms finding it a little difficult to get yourself back on a good schedule? Are you having doubts about your curriculum or does it seem that everyone is asking if “you’re doing that homeschool thing again this year?” Is everything getting done? Is anything getting done?

Maybe you need to read what my wife learned (and how she survived) homeschooling for 25 years…and do we have a special deal for you Homeschool Groups!

 

 

 

Her book is called The Imperfect Homeschooler’s Guide to Homeschooling. I’m sure you’ve heard other moms mention it. Here’s how to get it for half price:  order 10 books at a time and get them for $5.95 each (reg. $11.95 each) plus you’ll get free shipping. Got a big group?  Order 20 books and get free shipping. Or order 30 books and get free shipping. So the deal is 10-book increments, ½ price for the books and free shipping.

The Imperfect Homeschooler's Guide to Homeschooling

 

She put a lot of information in her book too – no fluff – homeschool moms don’t have time for fluff – they “just need the facts.”

 

You can read more about the book here:

 

 

But to get the book at the homeschool group discount (½ price for increments of 10 books plus free shipping) you need to order from this page.

Her book really is packed full of information and advice.

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P.S. My wife is Barbara Frank

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