How Schools Help Turn Children into Coddled Young Adults

People are complaining that the milennials won’t grow up, and in many cases they’re right. But who’s at fault? Their parents for coddling them, and the schools for treating teens like children.

This article points out what limited freedom today’s teens have. Even working is seen as inferior to going to school. Back in the 1970s, teens who didn’t want to go to college could go to school until noon and then leave for work. Now, if they work, they’re dragged back to the waste of time that is modern high school. Never mind that those first few jobs get young people on the road to eventually supporting themselves by giving them a taste of earning their own money.

While you’re there, scroll down and check out the chart in that same article, the chart showing the growth in students, teacher and administrators since 1950. There hasn’t even been 100% growth in the number of students, but we’ve gained 252% in the number of teachers, and a whopping 702% in the number of administrators.

Clearly public education has become a cash cow for many people, while preparing teens for adulthood takes a back seat. Savvy parents will put their teens’ needs first and help them get ready for adulthood without waiting for permission from the school, while homeschooling parents have the freedom to make the teen years a launching pad into adulthood, which is as it should be.

(Prepare your teen for adulthood with my book, Life Prep for Homeschooled Teenagers, now available in an expanded third edition, and also newly released as an eBook.)

Life Prep (Third Edition) Now Available as EBook

My first book, the homeschool curriculum Life Prep for Homeschooled Teenagers, still sells after 15 years and three editions, but it’s always been a print book. Now I’m excited to announce that the expanded third edition of Life Prep just became available in EBook form.

This new eBook version is a “print replica,” which means it looks exactly the same inside as the recently expanded print version does. So it includes every single feature that the print version has. Of course, you can still buy the print version if that’s what you prefer. (If I were still homeschooling, that’s what I would prefer.) But many people like the convenience (and lack of clutter) that you get when you buy eBooks instead of print books.

The print version costs $24.95, and the eBook version costs $9.99, so there’s some significant savings if you choose the eBook version.

In either case, preparing your homeschooled teen for life on their own is an essential task, and one that Life Prep for Homeschooled Teenagers will do, over the course of 1-4 semesters, depending on just how much preparation you want to offer to your teen. Learn more HERE. See the rest of our books and eBooks at CardamomPublishers.com.

The Anti-College Chorus Grows Louder

In my book Thriving in the 21st Century, I argue that the pursuit of a college degree should no longer be the default position assigned to teens as soon as they graduate from high school. I’m happy to say that I’m hearing more people who share that opinion speaking out.

One of them is John Stossel, who recently interviewed college professor and economist Bryan Caplan about his recent book on the subject. I highly recommend both of these links to parents who are considering borrowing tens of thousands of dollars so their offspring can earn a college degree because they think it’s the only way they’ll ever get a job. I suspect this chorus will only grow louder as more time passes and tuition keeps rising.

Summer Reading

Once the Internet took over my life (both for work and for entertainment), the number of books I read annually dropped, like a rock. I do read eBooks regularly, but slowly. So I decided this summer I would begin reading actual books more often.

The first book I read was one I heard about on Dennis Miller’s podcast. It’s an autobiography by the actress Illeana Douglas called I Blame Dennis Hopper. I’ve seen her in a few things, including an episode of “Frasier” (one of my all-time favorite television shows), but I was primarily interested in her because her grandfather, Melvyn Douglas, was an actor during the Golden Age of movies, which is when most of the movies we watch were made.

Unfortunately, she didn’t have too much to say about her grandfather, so while her commentary on the making of different movies she was in was interesting, and I read the whole book, it’s not one I would recommend unless you’re heavily into movies of the 80s and 90s, or you’re a fan of Illeana Douglas, who seems like a very nice person.

Next up was Kent Haruf’s Our Souls at Night. I’m a great fan of one of his earlier novels, Plainsong, so I thought I might like this book, too. And I did; it’s a sweet story about two older people that I wouldn’t have enjoyed when I was younger, but now that I’m closer in age to the two protagonists, I can appreciate it. Haruf’s style is sparer than most, and the novel ends rather abruptly, but he died not long after he wrote the book so maybe he just didn’t have the energy to flesh it out at the end. Nevertheless, it was a good story. I’ve heard that it was made into a movie with Jane Fonda and Robert Redford. I probably won’t watch it, though; I prefer to remember them as they were in “Barefoot in the Park.”

The third book I read so far this summer was The All-Girl Filling Station’s Last Reunion by Fannie Flagg. I’m old enough to remember Fannie on television game shows back in the day, but while I’ve known for years that she became a famous writer, I’ve never read any of her books. I greatly enjoyed this novel. Despite its overly descriptive beginning, it quickly evolved into a multi-generational saga that held my attention throughout and led me to fall behind on some chores in order to see what happened next. (My mother-in-law will be proud of me; despite the temptation, I didn’t read the ending in advance to make sure the book was worth the time investment, as I have been known to do in the past.)

As a bonus, Ms. Flagg’s research into the time period she wrote about included many references to life in mid-20th-century northeastern Wisconsin, including Sturgeon Bay, where I used to live, so I particularly appreciated learning about those days. I enjoyed this book enough that I’ve already chosen another of Ms. Flagg’s books to read next.

Start Collecting Old Textbooks!

Traditionally, the state of California (with its enormous school system) is where most textbooks were promoted and sold first. California has used this power to affect what kind of information went into textbooks, and what did not.

Over the past 30 years, all sorts of sexually fixated groups have worked hard to make sure their special interests were reflected in modern textbooks, and some of them have had great success, to the point that today’s school children are being taught all about historical figures’ supposed sexual preferences, with little if any concern for whatever qualifies them to be historical figures in the first place.

According to Gilbert T. Sewall, director of the American Textbook Council,

What in the world is a television personality like Ellen DeGeneres doing in a first-grade social-studies textbook? If you ask, many educators will look at you funny. If you exclaim that these are little children, that lesbian is a complicated word for six-year-olds, or that age-inappropriate might be an understatement here, heads will shake. If you say that sexualizing historical figures like Emily Dickinson or Florence Nightingale marginalizes their achievements, they will think you are the problem to overcome…..Not just in California but nationwide, curriculum supervisors at all levels, by law or partiality, won’t consider volumes unless they align to multicultural premises. Old-style textbooks have been taken out of print. As a result, teachers and parents are finding it close to impossible to avoid lessons saturated in identity politics.

This issue affects homeschoolers, who need textbooks. Start snapping up old textbooks (the older, the better) while you can. I suspect they will hold their value as long as modern textbooks continue to be steeped in LGBTXYZism.